Wednesday, February 18, 2009

chapter 9 question 1

I have been influenced by a speaker several years ago at a retreat for college students. It was a retreat for United Methodist Churches in the area, and usually had a speaker every year, this one year I went, he spoke in a way that captured all of the audience. He made it relate to what it was like to a Christian, and just the experiences he shared captivated everyone. It was the experiences and how he told the stories that caught our attention, because as a Christian we believed you have to live the “perfect” life, but when this pastor was speaking to us, he was telling the opposite, how he sold drugs, and joined gangs, etc, just the most astonishing stories that you wouldn’t hear from someone of his stature. Public speaking is hard, since you have to attend to a very large audience, but to be able to approach them with shocking stories and how you learn from them it can be influencing. The worst speaker was once at my church when we had a big event we hired a speaker to discuss being “homesick” with God. He rambled on for over the time limit, like an hour more, you could see the audience was getting restless and the topic didn’t even seem to go with the theme we asked for him to speak about. The kids were confused, even I was confused and we kept telling him to wrap it up but he just continued. Listening to him was a big dreadful time for all of us, as much as I tried to listen to him, his topic seemed to go off tangent and kept all of us confused. After that we never recommended him for any other events. Speaking to a large group of people has to be able to connect and easy to listen to.

3 comments:

  1. Hello msestherkim,

    I think that if a speaker opens up and shares personal information, we tend to be more open to hear them out. Especially in the case of a pastor. I know that with my pastor he speaks of his real life issues and struggles, and this helps me to relate to him more. He has never attempted to present himself as perfect, and has always stayed humble. My friends and I always speak of how much he connects with us, and how we wouldn't want to attend any other church but ours because we love our pastor. You made a good point when saying that when a person is speaking to a large group they have to find a way to connect. Without that connection a speaker is not an effective one.

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  2. Hello Ms.Esther! I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a speaker at your church. Why do you think this person kept rambling on? Do you think he noticed people getting bored? How do you think he could have brought the audience back and encouraged them to pay attention ( by using certain tactics rather than forcefully telling the audience to pay attention of course). :)

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  3. I really like your story of the speaker who came in to talk about his personal experience about how was into some bad stuff before finding religion. For me, I feel more captivated by speakers who are not scared to open up about their experiences because it is a way to connect and relate to the speaker that makes you want to pay attention.

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